Before dating apps, there was Halloween

Before dating apps, there was Halloween

Hello Reader,

Apparently, our ancestors had a very different definition of romance.

Today, if you want to meet someone, you might try a dating app.

A few centuries ago?

Halloween.

Because long before October 31 became costumes, candy, and arguing over whether candy corn is actually food, Halloween was apparently an excellent opportunity to figure out who you were going to marry.

And some of the methods were…

questionable.

🎃 Ye Olde Halloween Dating Advice

🔥 Set your potential husbands on fire.
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Sort of.

In one Scottish tradition, a woman named hazelnuts after her suitors and put them in the fire. What happened to the nuts supposedly revealed something about the future of those relationships.

Modern dating equivalent:​
Probably don’t do this.

🍎 Throw food over your shoulder.
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Women tossed apple peels over their shoulders and examined the shape they made when they landed. If the peel resembled a letter, supposedly it was the initial of the man they would marry.

Modern dating equivalent:​
Arguably more efficient than swiping.

🪞 Stand in a dark room and stare into a mirror.
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According to one tradition, a young woman could stand before a mirror in a darkened room, holding a candle, and look for the face of her future husband reflected over her shoulder.

I’m sorry.

Your future husband is supposed to suddenly appear behind you in a dark room?

Ladies.

That is not romance.

That is Chapter One of a romantic suspense novel. Or worse, a horror novel.

🥔 Find the ring in the mashed potatoes.
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In one 18th-century Irish tradition, a cook hid a ring in the Halloween mashed potatoes. Whoever found it was supposedly destined for true love.

Honestly?

Of everything we’ve discussed, this one seems safest.

Unless someone swallows the ring.

What fascinates me is that underneath all these strange traditions is something that hasn’t changed very much.

People want to know how the love story ends.

Who will I choose?

Who will choose me?

Will they stay?

Hundreds of years ago, people looked for answers in apple peels, fireplaces, and candlelit mirrors.

Now?

We open a romance novel.

Which is considerably safer.

Usually.

Although, admittedly, the people in my books aren’t particularly good at the “safer” part.

Especially on Halloween. Have you visited Mimosa Cay for Halloween yet? Masks & Murders is available on Kindle Unlimited. See how the Ivory Sands Resort celebrates the holiday.

Your turn:

You absolutely MUST use one of these methods to discover your future romantic partner.

Personally, I’m going for the potatoes.

Carbs and considerably lower odds of being murdered.

Talk soon,

Jena

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What does your Halloween costume say about you? 🎃

What does your Halloween costume say about you? 🎃

A quick observation:

I think your Halloween costume says something about you.

More specifically, I think it says something about the kind of romance you read.

I have absolutely no scientific evidence to support this theory. (Note: this has never stopped me before.)

🎃 What Your Halloween Costume Says About Your Romance-Reading Habits

🧙‍♀️ WITCH​
You like competent women, questionable decisions, and men smart enough not to underestimate either.

🧛 VAMPIRE​
Morally gray is not a warning.
It’s a recommendation.

👸 PRINCESS​
You want the dress, the fantasy, and the man who knows you can save yourself—but shows up anyway.

🦸 SUPERHERO​
Competence is your love language.
Bonus points if they save each other.

🐈‍⬛ BLACK CAT​
You’re independent. You don’t need anyone.
You have, however, become inexplicably attached to one fictional man.

👻 GHOST​
You came for the suspense.
You stayed for the unresolved sexual tension.

😈 DEVIL​
You clicked the wrong author’s newsletter.
Edyn is down the hall. 😂

As for me, mine would probably be some combination of woman holding a book + woman holding a margarita + woman yelling at fictional people to stop going places alone.

And speaking of people who really should know better than to wander around when something suspicious is happening…

🎃 Halloween is coming to the Storm Series.

MASKS & MURDERS

I couldn’t resist sending the Storm crew back into trouble again—this time with costumes, masks, Halloween festivities, and (because apparently nobody at Ivory Sands is allowed to have a perfectly normal vacation), murder.

Halloween is coming to Mimosa Cay. And this year, the island is listening.

Aurora Tygers came home to rebuild her life—not inherit an island legend. But when a centuries-old relic disappears from Ivory Sands during the resort’s Halloween festivities, the search leads her into forgotten tunnels, an approaching storm… and straight into Sheriff Logan Reyes.

Logan believes in evidence. Aurora isn’t sure what she believes anymore—especially when the wind begins answering her.

With a masked ball approaching and someone determined to unlock the Windshell’s power, they’ll have to uncover what was stolen before Halloween night turns an old island legend into something dangerously real.

Masks. Danger. A little magic. And a sheriff who might be exactly what Aurora didn’t know she needed.

Welcome back to Mimosa Cay.

COMING OCTOBER 3 to Kindle Unlimited

Before you go…

I need to know: What are you dressing as this Halloween?

Hit reply and tell me. And if it’s a devil costume, I’m forwarding your email to Edyn. 😈

Bonus points if my completely scientific analysis of your reading habits is accurate.

Until next time,

Jena​
Where Passion Meets Peril

P.S. Need a little more magic in your October TBR? 🎃​
Since Halloween is coming, this seems like the perfect time to mention that Fugitive Fox—from my fantasy-writing alter ego, Edyn Frost—is part of a fantasy & paranormal giveaway through October 15.

Go browse. Your TBR was getting dangerously manageable anyway.

[BROWSE THE FREE READS →]

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Three other little words

Three other little words

A quick observation.

There are three little words romance readers wait an entire book to hear.

I love you.

And don’t get me wrong. I’m a romance writer. I love those words.

But in romantic suspense?

I think there might be three others that can be just as powerful.

I believe you.

Think about it.

She says someone is following her.

I believe you.

She says something doesn’t feel right.

I believe you.

She tells him something happened—something frightening, or painful, or so unbelievable she’s already braced herself for the questions.

I believe you.

There’s something incredibly intimate about being believed.

Especially when you’re scared.

Because now you don’t have to spend your energy proving the danger exists. You don’t have to convince someone that your instincts are valid. You don’t have to defend what you saw, what you heard, or what you know.

Someone simply looks at you and says:

I believe you. What do you need?

And I think that last part matters just as much.

Not:
​I believe you, so now I’m taking over.

Not:
​I believe you, so you’re going to do exactly what I say.

But: ​
I believe you. What do you need?

Because being protected and having your choices taken away are two very different things.

Maybe that’s one of the reasons I keep writing protector heroes.

My heroines are capable women. They’re smart. They’re resourceful. And when something goes wrong, they’re usually already fighting like hell to fix it.

They don’t need a hero because they’re incapable of saving themselves.

Sometimes they need someone with a different set of skills. Someone who believes them. Someone who asks what they need.

And someone willing to stand beside them while they figure out what comes next.

Which brings me to Viper and Sloane…

I’ve been spending more time with the first Phoenix Shield story lately, and this idea sits right at the heart of their relationship.

Sloane is an investigative journalist.

She’s good at what she does. She’s smart, stubborn, persistent, and very capable of following a trail other people would rather she leave alone.

Unfortunately, she follows one a little too far.

By the time she realizes exactly what she’s uncovered, the problem isn’t finding the story anymore. It’s surviving long enough to tell it.

So she goes to Phoenix Shield.

And Viper has something Sloane doesn’t: years of experience recognizing threats, anticipating what comes next, and keeping people alive when someone else wants them dead.

That doesn’t make him more capable than she is.

It makes him capable at something different.

And that’s where things get interesting.

Because Viper doesn’t need Sloane to convince him she’s helpless.

She isn’t.

He needs to believe her when she tells him she’s in danger.

And then the two of them have to figure out what they’re going to do about it.

Together.

Of course, this being romantic suspense, there will also be danger, secrets, people trying to kill them, and the inconvenient complication of becoming attracted to the person you’re supposed to be keeping alive.

I wouldn’t make it too easy for them. 😉

More on Viper Strike soon.

But in the meantime, I’m curious:

Which three words get you the most in a romance?

I love you.

I’ll stay.

or

I believe you.

Hit reply and tell me. I genuinely love seeing your answers.

Until next time,

Jena

Where Passion Meets Peril

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Jena Wilde is going to WriterCon

Jena Wilde is going to WriterCon

A slightly different note from me today.

Normally, when you hear from me, I’m sitting behind a computer somewhere, surrounded by fictional people who refuse to behave according to plan.

Today?

I’m in Oklahoma City for WriterCon.

For the next few days, I’ll be surrounded by writers, editors, publishing professionals, and other people who understand that having lengthy conversations about imaginary people is perfectly normal behavior.

I’m looking forward to it.

Writing is a funny profession. So much of it happens alone.

We sit at our desks and build entire worlds inside our heads. We create people, fall in love with them, put them through terrible things, occasionally kill someone, and then wander into the kitchen for another cup of coffee as if nothing unusual has happened.

And then every once in a while, we get to come out of our writing caves and spend time with other people who do exactly the same thing.

That’s one of the things I’m most looking forward to this week.

Learning.

Talking books.

Meeting other writers.

Coming home with new ideas.

And, knowing me, probably adding approximately seventeen things to my already-too-long list of things I want to write.

This conference is also a little unusual for me because I’m attending as ME rather than as one of my pen names.

Which means both of my writing worlds get to come along.

There’s Jena Wilde, where you’ll find romantic suspense, capable heroines, protector heroes, danger, found family, and happily-ever-afters.

And there’s Edyn Frost, my much more supernatural alter ego, where you’ll find magic, dangerous immortals, morally gray heroes, and considerably more Hell.

Apparently one fictional universe wasn’t enough for me.

Meanwhile, back at Phoenix Shield…

The team isn’t getting the week off just because I’m at a conference.

I’m still working on Phoenix Shield, and Viper Strike is the first story preparing to come to life.

Viper and Sloane have been taking up quite a bit of space in my head lately—which means I suspect I’ll be sneaking away at some point this week to jot down something one of them has decided I absolutely cannot wait until I get home to write.

That’s the trouble with fictional people.

They don’t respect conference schedules.

I’ll share more about Viper, Sloane, and Phoenix Shield soon.

For now, I’m off to WriterCon.

And if you’d like, I’ll share a few glimpses of the adventure over on Instagram while I’m here.

Wish me luck!

Jena

Where Passion Meets Peril

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I’ll stay.

I’ll stay.

The Wilde Side

I love a good “I love you.”
I’m a romance writer. Of course I do.

But there are two words that might get me even more: “I’ll stay.”

Being there, being present, is often the most important thing in life. Attraction is great. Love matters. But consistency, presence, and choosing the other person when things aren’t easy are what sustains a relationship.

  • He’s there when she’s frightened.
  • He listens when he can’t fix it.
  • He sits beside her when there isn’t anything useful to say.
  • He keeps showing up: tomorrow, and the day after…

Sometimes, the most romantic thing isn’t the declaration at all. It’s the coffee already waiting, fixed the way she likes it. The hand reaching for hers. The chair pulled closer when everyone else leaves.

This is where Zach belongs.

Of the three men in the Storm Series, I think Zach understands this best. He isn’t a man of speeches. He’s a man of action.

He watches. He anticipates. He protects.
And when he gives someone his loyalty, he doesn’t give it halfway.

For a man like Zach, I’ll stay might actually be a bigger declaration than I love you.

Emma is the feminine side of that. She doesn’t demand flowery speeches (or flowers, for that matter!). She understands him, that his presence says it all, because she’s the same way.

Sometimes he’s the strong one. Sometimes she is. Sometimes neither one is particularly strong, but they stay anyway, and hold each other up.

“I love you” tells someone how you feel.
“I’ll stay” tells them what you intend to do about it.

Maybe that’s why I keep writing found families. Romantic or otherwise, I’m fascinated by people who stay. My Phoenix men and women all fall into this category as well.

One more thing before I go…

Some of you may already know this, but I’ve been keeping another writing life tucked away under a different name.

Meet Edyn Frost.

Yep. She’s me. 😊

I created Edyn because the stories I write under that name are very different from the romantic suspense you know me for as Jena Wilde. Edyn’s world is filled with magic, supernatural creatures, dangerous immortals, and romance with a decidedly darker edge.

But beneath all that, I find myself writing about many of the same things: capable heroines, powerful men who have to learn that protecting someone isn’t the same as controlling them, trust, loyalty, found family, and two people choosing each other when walking away would probably be easier.

There just happens to be a little more Hell involved. 🔥

On August 20, Edyns first Princes of Sin novel, Lust, releases.

She wanted vengeance. Hell answered with the Prince of Lust.

When a witch summons a demon to help her get revenge, she gets considerably more than she bargained for: Asmodeus, immortal Prince of Lust, a bargain that binds them together, and a connection neither of them was ever supposed to have.

If paranormal and fantasy romance isn’t your thing, no worries at all. Jena isn’t going anywhere, and Phoenix Shield is very much underway. Viper is getting antsy to make his debut.

But if your reading tastes sometimes wander toward magic, morally gray immortals, dangerous bargains, and impossible love…

I’d love to introduce you to Edyn.

​Learn more →​

More soon,
Jena

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What kind of woman belongs with a protector hero?

What kind of woman belongs with a protector hero?

The Wilde Side

One of my favorite kinds of heroines isn’t fearless. She’s determined. She knows she’s in over her head…
…and she keeps going anyway.

Because courage isn’t the absence of fear. It’s deciding something else matters more.

Readers (and non-readers!) often equate strength with:

  • winning every fight
  • never asking for help
  • never making mistakes
  • even: acting like a b1+ch.

But that’s not strength.

Real strength is:

  • asking difficult questions
  • refusing to look away
  • trusting the right people
  • accepting help without surrendering agency
  • Knowing when to ask for help

I don’t write women who need someone to save them.
I write women who refuse to stop fighting.
Sometimes, they simply need someone willing to fight beside them.

That’s exactly where I found Sloane, the heroine of Viper Strike.

She’s an investigative journalist who uncovers a story that’s far bigger—and far more dangerous—than she ever imagined.

She doesn’t go looking for Phoenix Shield because she wants someone else to solve the problem.

She goes because she still intends to expose the truth. She just wants to live long enough to publish it. She has the courage, just not the expertise.

Today’s survey: What’s your favorite quality in a fictional heroine?

More soon,
~ Jena

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